This was what he quoted: "I tend to think this place, at times, resembles a school yard and there are one or two that play
the part of the little punk that stands behind the big bully and takes his shots or maybe a better descripion
would be that they act like little girls that act tough because they are sitting behind their computers
and feel safe."
Nothing about calling people names because you can. He explained what he meant in a later post if you don't follow. I wouldn't take this personally as I don't believe the redirect of your comment was being directed squarely [or at least solely] at you.
If you are trying to tell me that, as a moderator on head-fi, you haven't seen any petty/bitchy behavior on the part of certain mods/admins/owners, I think you might need to open your eyes.