So, are you saying
I could have had her, but I'm married, so I didn't?
or is it more
"Look at that!",
"But You're married!",
"Yes, but I'm not dead!"
When the evolutionary programming takes over, and my wife finds me observing fertile Californian youth, she knowingly remarks.
"Grahame, they are half your age. Good luck with that.
The sad part is, they are some fraction of my age.
At least they don't like me for the wrong reasons.
Why women really do love self-obsessed psychopaths - Science, News - The Independent
Could you tell by just looking?
"a study showing that the majority of men and women were able to accurately judge whether a person would be a good bet for a committed relationship or were more interested in a fling, just by looking at a photograph of their face."
The dizzying diversity of human sexual strategies - life - 26 November 2008 - New Scientist