Its not like I discover this by now, hell no, but listen...Sometimes you begin to think about the situations and the things become more complicated than clear.

Just today I was having a drink with several people because one of our female collegaue were leaving the firm. Before that, she invited, personally, all that folks, include me, so its not like I am really that important or anything, however not everyone were welcome after all, especially that we are not worked at the same department.

To make this story short I will say this. When I talked to her, lately, you having about one thing, but if I were looking in her eyes, I just saw something different...And that different make me wonder, why oh why is this happenning? Not that I feel unnatural, no, just, if the mother nature gave us this possibility of attraction, why the hell we must resist it all the time:confused:

This is not the first time I have such situation and asking myself, how the hell you guys handle this? Or maybe I am in midlifecrisis, but on the other hand it wasnt that different before, so am I crazy?

Dont get me wrong, I do love my wife, but the question isnt about cheating, its like about instincts we have. Instincts that make us look to other women and also like them, sexually or not, but still...

I think you just need to go through puberty.

I've had that part of my brain cauterized.

i came here for dating.

Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo.

And I like my puberty, so, shoot me:cool:

i came here for dating.

Jack you crack me up

i came here for dating.

win

Dew eet!

Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo.

And I like my puberty, so, shoot me:cool:

You sound conflicted.

I think you just need to go through puberty.

I concur.

And: win.

Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo.

I think it is time for you to get a new amp and forget about such nonsense.

Middle age crisis? Seven year itch? Whatever it is, if you love your wife, kill your instincts and have that part of your brain cauterized. It's not about lying yourself, it's about being able to keep the things you appreciate safe and clean.

A site run by headphone nerds is probably not the ideal place to seek advice on such a thing

edit: oh who am I kidding, just a get a magazine and go to town.

Middle age crisis? Seven year itch? Whatever it is, if you love your wife, kill your instincts and have that part of your brain cauterized. It's not about lying yourself, it's about being able to keep the things you appreciate safe and clean.

Just tell him there's a perfectly reasonable medical explanation.

Its not like I discover this by now, hell no, but listen...Sometimes you begin to think about the situations and the things become more complicated than clear.

Yep I did an internet search about the best snowtires and you are perfectly right....

Amicalement

PS.

If you need a little help with balancing your hormones just think about her/him/whatever...

You're a guy. Regardless of your relationship or marital status, if you didn't have the hots for other women every now and then, you need to get your testosterone levels checked.

Yes we need that smiley added

Thanks guys/girls. When I read all that posts it makes me laugh, cos sense of humor is one of those things that make our life bit easier.

And yes, we sure need that smiley;)

Yes we need that smiley added

Um.

Blackmore, you just now figuring this stuff out? The rest of youz,

Nope, I just want to talk about it, thats all. Ahh, never mind...

Blackmore, you just now figuring this stuff out? The rest of youz,

Nope, I just want to talk about it, thats all. Ahh, never mind...

Feel free to keep talking mate, if that helps...

Being a male of the human species is no big deal regarding procreation instincts. You can't fight feeling them, but you need to learn to control them if you don't want to convert your whole life in a terrible mess.

I had the hope that things would improve with years, but looks like they get worse It was nice being an adolescent hahahahaha however I think I'm happier now... gotta think about it

Feel free to keep talking mate, if that helps...

Being a male of the human species is no big deal regarding procreation instincts. You can't fight feeling them,

Salt Peter

Also, the last thing this world needs is offspring from me.

Salt Peter

Also, the last thing this world needs is offspring from me.

I'm afraid the current world doesn't need more offspring from anyone