You probably were banned for good reason--they know what they're doing at HF. This place is not HF, and from your post it sounds like what you really want to do is go back there, which is understandable--it's a great forum. I recommend you try to do that.
This place is not HF. If you want to continue to be a member here, I recommend rereading your welcome PM. Then read it again. The bottom line is that we don't give a shit about your HF experience. If your contribution to this site is going to limited to whining about another site, then your time with us will be short. On the other hand, if you want to talk about music and booze and gadgets and other random stuff, and occasionally some headphone gear, then welcome; we look forward to your contributions. But don't post about this HF shit again. We don't care.