Before complaining too much about HF moderation, I'd like to make you aware that 3 moderators here are also moderators at HF. So putting down HF moderation won't win you points here.
My advice is to calm down, read the note to which you were pointed, read a lot to get the feel of the place, and only then start posting. Your time here will be more enjoyable and a lot longer if you do this.
Good luck.