Steve, you don't want my advice. I have a lifetime of evidence that points to the fact that my choices have been sus (as the kids say).
Tough situation, but I'm sure it's exciting too. That's usually where I would be an emotional wreck, wishing my life would go back to being simple.
You're a good, considerate dude, with moral character, so I think you'll make the right choices if and when things develop. Try to just enjoy the date, and you'll figure out the rest.