Jacob, i am sorry to hear about what happened. at least she was just at her sister's. i'd say let this one go, make-up and move forward. and you might want to prepare yourself for some more unusual behavior before the wedding as it is to be expected. keep your cool, be the mature one, show compassion and don't look for accountability...

Good advice. If 36 years marriage have taught me anything it is not to sweat the small stuff. Based on what you wrote, this is not worth a battle.

Edited July 15, 201214 yr by Aimless1

Wow, sorry to hear that Jacob.

On the brighter side, tell her you have a great new entry for the gift registry.

Big hugs your way, Jacob. I hope the outcome is the best for you.

peace and love, Jacob. this too shall pass.

weddings are stressful. You both need to be aware of that, and forgive each other more. And then once you're married, marriages are stressful, and you both need to be aware of that and forgive each other more

weddings are stressful. You both need to be aware of that, and forgive each other more. And then once you're married, marriages are stressful, and you both need to be aware of that and forgive each other more

This.

Sucks Jacob that you broke your hand,hope everything works out ok.

weddings are stressful. You both need to be aware of that, and forgive each other more. And then once you're married, marriages are stressful, and you both need to be aware of that and forgive each other more

Absolute words of wisdom.

weddings are stressful. You both need to be aware of that, and forgive each other more. And then once you're married, marriages are stressful, and you both need to be aware of that and forgive each other more

QFT. Eloquently said, Dan.

Bummer Jacob. Also agree with the Tao of Grawk.

we're going to stay together, but i think we need to get some counseling.

Wedding still on schedule?

plaster walls

Yowch. Good luck with everything though.

one day at a time..

yes.

Good.

one day at a time..

Valerie Bertinelli was so hot on that show.

Dan nailed it. Particularly for the woman the whole run up to the wedding tends to be an unbearable load of unreasonable expectations and anxiety - if she doesn't have her own, family, friends and society at large will contribute so no one goes without. It really should be more fun. Sometimes, there's post-stress unpleasantness afterwards to boot. If you cut each other a massive amount of slack it can be survivable.

And what Al said, too.

Good luck, Jacob. What Dan said ...

Edit: What Al said, also. I was totally in love with her. I'd watch that show just to look at her.

Edited July 16, 201214 yr by jvlgato

You guys are pigs.

ok, she was hot, wasn't she.

And Schneider?

Good luck, Jacob. What Dan said ...

Edit: What Al said, also. I was totally in love with her. I'd watch that show just to look at her.

It was Jimmy McNichol for me, and I'll embarrassingly admit to a short crush on Leif Garrett.

Ah, the old days.

Yeah ... Schneider didn't do much for me, don't even remember Jimmy McNichol, Leif Garrett - kinda looks like a girl, doesn't he?

Yeah, he was prettier than a lot of girls from that time.

Yeah ... Schneider didn't do much for me, don't even remember Jimmy McNichol, Leif Garrett - kinda looks like a girl, doesn't he?

I bet you remember Jimmy's sister Kristy:

Yeah, he was prettier than a lot of girls from that time.

And further to Steve's point:

He is way more fem than she it (and she came out as an adult iirc)

Turned in my acceptance letter.

Ran into a problem -- couldn't get my Epson scanner working on linux. Which is bad, because one of the reasons he hired me was to administrate linux boxes. Oh well, I'll figure it out.